I am very happy to update that after 3 really bad days, things are looking up. They always get better and this time is no different. The problems at work are in the process of being resolved. Wusha is still doing great. The boys are still themselves but somehow it is just easier to deal with them when I am not frustrated with every else in life. Many of the things I was so worried about the past three days have either resolved themselves or will shortly.
And for my misbehaving toddler boys, I think an early bedtime is in order. After all, how many time-outs can they have in one day? Oh, and no puppy time. If you can't listen and be calm with the puppy, you can't play with the puppy. End of story.